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I am visiting for the first time in mid August for 2 weeks with my partner and my 2 children, a girl aged 12 and a boy who has just turned 14. My partner is an experienced nudist, me and the kids less so, although we have been to a quite nudist beach a couple of times.

Whilst excited about the holiday, my kids are slightly nervous, especially my son. If he decides some days not to go completely naked on the beach, would that be OK? Are most the other boys his age normally naked? I think if all the other young teens are naked, he will be fine to be nude as well, but less so if most other kids cover up.

Thanks for any advice.

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During the summer months there are literally hundreds of children and teens enjoying the main beach with their families. Virtually all of them will be naked, it is a naturist beach after all!

If your son really felt that he wanted a to wear a swimming costume, I don't suppose that would be a problem, but to be honest he would probably feel a bit weird, being the only one wearing textiles.

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DizzyMum, glad to hear your son is fine about being naked now and no longer worried about getting erections. As a Mum with 3 boys, I know It's something that many parents of young teens worry about. There used to be a great website with really good advice for 1st time young nudists, I can't find it now but if I do I'll send you the link.

A few tips I do remember, If you don't already do so, it's a good idea for your whole family to practice nudism at home before the holiday. That way you are all much more comfortable being naked when you turn up at crowded nudist beach for the first time. The other person who mentioned putting sun cream on before leaving for the beach is another good tip. I don't know how comfortable you or your partner would be discussing the delicate subject of masturbation with your son? As I'm sure you are aware most teenage boys normally masturbate daily. On holiday however they often share a room with a sibling or a parent and don't have the required privacy to masturbate. In a young teen who is used to regular self relief, after several days of abstinence he will basically become a walking erection! We learnt the hard way with out eldest son (no pun intended!). If you can give you son some privacy each morning to relieve his sexual frustration before you leave for the beach, I think you will find any erection he does get on the beach will be rare and short lived.

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Hedayatsa, thanks for your reply, but no, that is not what I was thinking. But I'm sure you can understand why I was concerned. I have a 14 year year old son going through a particular difficult stage of puberty where he seems to be highly sexed, gets frequent erections and will be sleeping in the same room as his 12 year old sister where they are both likely to be masturbating at the same time. I'd rather they had separate rooms but that's not possible for this holiday. We had a good chat and they have both assured me, they have complete respect for each other's sexual needs and that I have nothing to worry about. They are good kids and know the difference between right and wrong. I do sometimes over worry things and hit the panic button occasionally. My partner has been a nudist for years, but it is still relatively new for me and my kids. This will be our first proper naturist holiday as a family and we are all learning all the time.

Thanks Fearless for your wonderful reply. I do sometimes have a bit of a melt down and worry about things that I don't need to. I definitely need a good holiday! What you wrote was really sweet and has helped even more to put my mind at ease. I am definitely now chilled out and counting the days till we depart. Once again, many thanks for such a nice reply.

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DizzyMum, STOP WORRYING! From reading your posts, you are clearly a great Mum and raising 2 well adjusted children. It's great that you can be so open with your kids and discuss subjects other families might just brush under the carpet. You and your children have a very healthy attitude towards the challenges of puberty and being a naturist family. You should be proud of that. You have had a good chat with your kids, that's great, they are not fazed by sharing a room and have agreed to respect each others privacy. So stop worrying, be grateful you have such a great family, relax and have a great holiday!

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Thanks Fearless for your reply. We have been practicing the naturist lifestyle at home all summer and last year visited a quite nudist beach in Spain a couple of times so it won't be a massive shock to any of us when we all strip off on Cap d'Agde for the first time.

Regarding your other point, you have certainly got me thinking and also slightly worried. To keep the cost down we have rented a one bedroom apartment. My boyfriend and I will sleep in the living room whilst my son and daughter will share the only bedroom. She is 12, 18 months younger than him. They normally get on pretty well and it's always worked out well in the past. Whilst I still think of both of them as my babies and probably always will, they are both now growing up and going through puberty. We might have to think about renting a 2 bedroom going forward, but it's too late for this holiday. We're lucky that we can talk to our children about just about anything and they both say they are not bothered about sharing a room with each other. They are both aware that the other one masturbates nightly and have promised to, as much as possible give each other privacy and not get up to any silliness. I know they are both used to seeing each other naked and my daughter has seen my son with an erection many times. Even so, I still can't help feeling slightly uncomfortable. At home we have a rule that if either one wants to masturbate, they go to their own room and shut the door. They always do this. I did suggest when they go to bed they leave the door open till both have finished masturbating but they don't seem too keen. They feel it will be an invasion of their privacy, which I do understand. My partner is very laid back about the whole thing and says I worry too much, but I am slightly worried. It's not that I don't trust my children, I do, but I also know what raging teenage hormones can lead to. Lots of other parents must have had this problem on holiday with pubescent siblings sharing a room, but I can't find much information online. If anyone reading this has any helpful advice and can put this worried Mum's mind a rest (once again), I'd be very grateful to hear it.

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We've just got back from a wonderful week in Cap d'Agde. My boys, 12 and 13 had the same fear regarding getting hard whilst naked on the beach as your son. Yes, it did happen a few times to both of them, as it did to the numerous friends they made, but was never seen as a problem by anyone on the beach. Some boys if sitting or lying on their backs would turn to lie on their fronts to hide a hard on. Others, if at the water's edge would run into the sea. Also, one good tip I learnt from the mother of one of my son's friends was to apply suntan lotion before leaving for the beach. If you do it at the beach, once you start rubbing it in to your private parts, well you can guess what is likely to happen! Finally, as you are probably aware, whilst the main family part of the beach is great for kids, there is adult sexual activity that occurs on the other part. It's hard to stop kids wondering over there from time to time, but it's best for families to keep to the main part of the beach.

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Thanks everyone for your replies. My boyfriend and I have had a good chat with my son and he is much happier now. It turns out his main concern was that he feels he is likely to get frequent erections and would be embarrassed to be seen like that on a busy beach. We've explained to him that it's the same for all teenage boys going through puberty and most people won't care or barley notice. My partner says after a day or so, he will be so used to being naked, he will find the erections become less and less frequent. I told him I will pack a pair of speedos just in case, but he confidently said, "nah, won't be needing them." Counting the days now till we arrive and all 4 of us can't wait.

over a year ago Problem with this answer? Reviewed this attraction Mashhad, Iran

99% of all people and kids are nude in the family side but if your son want to wear somthingit is not problem .every one respect to kids

over a year ago Problem with this answer? Reviewed this attraction Dorset, United Kingdom

Quite simply stay on the family section of the beach and let him decide what he wants to do. No one will mind either way - trunks or no trunks.

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I am the mom of 3 boys 9, 13, and 17. We've visited Cap d'agde a few times now. We also encouraged our 2 eldest to find some relief before going to the beach. That worked pretty good for the most part. This past year our oldest wanted to do things differently. Instead of finding some relief before going to the beach, he preferred to go to the more non family friendly section and relieve himself there. Not what I'd prefer but it's his body and I respect that.

6 months ago Problem with this answer? Radcliffe, United Kingdom

Ho did it all go

over a year ago Problem with this answer? Boones Mill, Virginia

I remember when naturalists tried to pretent to have rules regarding sexual exposure to minors. Now it is just fine to allow underage children to sleep together nude, after masterbating together. And claim to know whats good and bad? Well in the old days a boy would be sharing the couch with his father and mom and daughter would get the bed. No hanky panky on that vacation. There should be 3 beds not one or two.

Remember it only takes one time, to have something bigger to deal with.

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